“Brutal Honesty” About Women Who Date Online
So, I was browsing through some Online Dating articles the other day and stumbled upon a post that really caught my eye!
Well, let’s just say it was from an Anonymous guy who had some not-so-nice things to say about women who date online on his blog.
Anyway, here’s the post:
Without a DOUBT, each and every time a woman posts a photo with more than one person, she is always the unattractive one. Two people in the photo and one cute? You’re not her! Jesus Christ ladies, how about putting up a photo with you and one of your uglier friends? You know, to make yourself look better. Also, if you post photos from weird angles, or just a facial shot… do you know that we know what that means? Do you think all men are stupid? It means you’re FAT! You’re not fooling anybody. This also pertains to women’s profiles WITHOUT a photo at all. Sure, you’ll give us some line about how you want to remain ‘private’, but we all know what that means. It also means you’re fat. FAT, I say! I’ve never seen a pretty girl hide herself. Please, honey. Listen, we’re going to find out how ugly or fat you are eventually, so why don’t you just be honest about it? And if you’re going to take that HORRENDOUS bathroom mirror self portrait, try tidying up the counter beforehand. I’m really tired of looking at your used tissue and dirty towels. One last thing: For the love of all that is holy, NO fake mustaches please!
OK… Yah well I have to admit that I’ve had similar experiences over the years when browsing women’s profiles but I wouldn’t be quite THAT harsh!
We all know that women and men lie in their Online Dating profiles and I always preach honesty is the BEST policy. Apparently this guy is running into some pretty BAD women out there.
I will say that one of my pet peeves is when women post photos of them with ALL their friends and you have NO idea which one she is! That really annoys me and it happens a lot!
Anyway, I hope you are posting clear, normal online dating photos of yourself and not trying to deceive anyone. It WILL come back to bite you!
So, what do you think? Do most women tell little white lies in their profiles and/or post deceiving pics?
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8 Responses to ““Brutal Honesty” About Women Who Date Online”
P
So you don’t publish your photo because guys will not pick you out of the lineup if you do. Ladies: the problem isn’t the photo itself.
Matt
I see a lot of discussions like this one, regarding what women are like online when it comes to dating sites, or any site to be honest, even ones like meetme and faceparty etc etc….They do like it when a guy is a bit of a jerk, I have messaged girls and the nice email saying how I read her profile and liked what I saw, you know that kind of thing gets hardly any response, however, when I am a bit of a funny guy and joke around with her I get some response. The only trouble I find is keeping it up and being a bit of a bad boy for all messages and then she senses the “nice guy” coming out and soon stops contact. Obviously don’t go messaging, saying you want to rub her knickers on your face, but just try and find something to take the mick out of in her profile. I can preach this, but doing is so much harder! lol……..
Andy
The last thing you want to do is sound just like every other guy sending her messages. Find something to disagree or busy on her about. Whatever you do don’t kiss ass. Don’t send her hi, how are you either. The key is standing out from the other guys. Also pof is bad because its like 20 males to 1 female. I’ve found I do better on smaller sites. I get women messaging me all the time on OKC. Problem is I’m picky. I’m not into white chicks and 99% of online is white. Online dating sucks in my opinion. If you look good and have confidence real world is where its at.
Andy
This guy is right about the pictures with multiple women. It’s like women think if they have hot friends its supposed to upgrade the way they look too but instead its like putting a VW Bug next to a Ferrari thinking the Ferrari is going to somehow make the Bug look more appealing. Really? If anything it makes them look worse. If I see a women standing next to her hot friends you can almost bet the profile ALWAYS belongs to the worst looking female. You know what I like to do? I will usually send the woman a message asking her if her friend is single. Never get an aswer though. Lol.
John
With online dating you can’t gauge a person just by a keyboard you need to interact and feel something for that person.those online are hiding who they really are, looks are and only thing that will attract people online. If a spark doesn’t fly in the first view of your profile it’s game over, but if you met through friends, a party whatever, you get to know a person. Online dating takes away the REAL side of dating. We are afraid of people’s responses and we get offended by the simplest thing these days. If you really want to attract people whether man or woman, look after yourself, get fit, eat right, get a good haircut, where good clothes, be confident, ave a sense of humour and don’t take yourself to seriously. Don’t be desperate and asking a girl for sex straight away is really dumb!
Jack E. Moore III
Most women go with the “tired of playing games” crap, or the “looking for a real man”, or “I deserve to be treated like a princess” junk.
And then there are the fucking philosophy majors who do nothing but jam tons of quotes and song lyrics and of course their take on life in their 5 chapter profile description.
Then there are the nice normal ones, who post genuinely looking for someone. Nice short profile, a few decent pics. Only they’re already off making poor decisions again by the time you get to them. Why else does a normal female need to be on a dating site if she doesn’t make poor choices? Any reasonably attractive girl can get a date if they want one, instantly.
So yeah, if you’re fat, post it. Don’t lie. I was fat, now I’m not. It’s called choices. And also, give “nice guys” a second look. Most of them have a very dominant and loyal personality waiting to unleash itself upon a lucky female who actually does take the time to post truthful photos, it’s just hidden under years of being beaten down by feminist propaganda…
todd
I actually have much much harsher things to say about the lovely online women. This guy was actually very nice compared to what I would have written. The women online, especially the attractive ones, are just “playing you”- if they “kinda” like you, they will give you just barely enough attention while they try to decide who is the best looking and has the most money. Yeah, they all SAY they want a nice guy, and when they find a “nice guy”- what happens? They either tell them “let’s be friends”, or “you’re like a brother to me”, then they sleep with a really good looking jerkwod who is sleeping with tons of other women. I am going to stop now, but I’m on match, and I’m NOT a bad-looking guy, and after writing to like 30 women, no responses except for 1, and she proceeded to tell me within 5 minutes of meeting she was still in love with some guy who dumped her, but she wanted to “be friends” with me and see if anything developed. Yeah, like how stupid do these women think I am?
Nice guys get slaughtered, especially online. Being kinda nice, and kind of a dick to them works much better.
Andy
You think women just want good looking & rich? I agree they don’t want a nice guy but looks and money have NOTHING to do with what females want. I mean you can’t look disgusting but other than that its not about looks. I had a hot looking flight attendant message me 1st online, offer me her phone number. I called her tonight and told her I am unemployed and she asked to meet me for coffee tomorrow. You are wrong. Okay, online women do go for looks to some point but it has nothing to do with money. Unless we are talking gold digger and that is all they wanted to begin with. Its attitude and confidence my man. Get some confidence and you can have any woman you want. Don’t be nice! Nice is for chumps! Get some balls and let them hang all in her face and all over town and you’ll have no problem. Women go off feelings not logical thinking. Nice guy = chump. A-Hole = strong man. Remember that. Females can’t help it its inner feelings not logical thinking.